okay, here is my problem. bondage on it's own is not that abnormal. many people use it as a way of alleviating stress or simply as a fun pastime. however, the key difference between that and this? consent. in BDSM CONSENT is the highest law in existence. it's why safewords exist. if the safeword is used, the play stops then and there. no questions, no negotiations, the sub is released and the dom backs off or comforts the sub.
this? this is NOT Bondage, this is non-consensual torture and rape.
if the person says no, it means no. this goes much further then that through.
Bondage is all about trust. and contrary to popular belief, the Dom is NOT the one in control. the sub is. because with a single word, all play stops. if the dom ignores this? it is a violation of that trust and destroys all chances of a repeat.
trust and consent are the ultimate laws of bondage, ANY violation of those laws is viewed as the highest Taboo one can perform. so this? this isn't bondage, this is a perversion, a violation of EVERYTHING that can make bondage a beautiful expression of love, trust and devotion.
i myself do not indulge in the BDSM scene personally, but i know many who do. and seeing this? would disgust them to their very cores.
so i am sorry, i do not find this kinky at all. i find this offensive, highly so.